Born on January 29, 1976, in Lagos State to royal family parents Rowland and Rosannah Okonkwo from Obowo in Imo State, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo - widely known as “Pastor K” - is an Igbo by heritage. Raised in Lagos, he completed his First School Leaving Certificate (FSLC) and West African Senior School Certificate Examination (SSCE) locally.
Early on, he blossomed as a faithful and vibrant leader, setting the stage for his future life purpose focused on relationship coaching and marriage counseling.
Calling & Foundation of Ministry
In 1996, Kingsley founded what began as a Youth Fellowship, later evolving into the thriving David Christian Centre (DCC) in Lagos. As Lead Pastor, he drives a vision: “to raise a victorious people—100% of the time”—through faith-powered preaching and community empowerment.
Built on vibrant worship, the DCC runs across multiple campuses (Mile 2 and Elegushi Road) with weekly services, midweek gatherings, and a strong emphasis on scriptural living.
Love, Dating & Marriage (LDM) Ministry
In 1999, Kingsley launched the Love, Dating & Sex Fellowship, rebranded to Love, Dating & Marriage (LDM) after his marriage in 2005. The monthly relationship seminar - and weekly TV broadcasts—focus on building marriages and relationships on biblical principles.
Global Reach & Authority
LDMwithPK is a trusted relationship coaching platform, and Pastor K is a certified relationship counselor, Advanced Master Christian Life Coach, and AACC presidential member. The ministry addresses themes like domestic violence, divorce, infidelity recovery, and family life. He also runs specialized programs:
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MANUAL (for women),
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MAN UP (for men),
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TOGETHER FOREVER (for married couples),
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Family Life Practitioners Conference.
Coaching Credentials
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Board-certified life coach (IBCC)
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Infidelity recovery master coach (Couples Academy)
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Diplomas in Biblical counseling & marriage-family life from Light Univ and KEW Academy.
Personal Life & Family Journey
In September 2005, Kingsley married his best friend, Mildred Chijide, who later became Associate Pastor of the DCC. Mildred, affectionately called “PM”, overcame a PCOS diagnosis during her youth. Kingsley’s declaration—“I am not marrying you for children, but because I love you”—remains legendary.
Their union blessed them with three biological children and one adopted child, and as of 2024, they mark 19 years of marriage celebrated widely in media .
Together, they launch joint platforms like “Just Us Girls” network, “#3PMWithPM” virtual prayer movement, and the Bible Before Breakfast podcast.
Educational Attainments
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Early education completed in Lagos
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Doctorate from Myles Leadership University, India (2022)
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Multiple diplomas and certifications in Christian counseling, coaching, and family ministry.
Authorship & Publications
Pastor K is a best-selling relationship author. His impactful work includes:
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God Told Me To Marry You
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7 Qualities Wise Men Want
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7 Questions Wise Women Ask
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Should Ladies Propose?
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25 Wrong Reasons People Enter Relationships
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Heal Before You Deal
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A–Z of Marriage, among others.
These titles rank high for relationship advice, dating tips, and Christian marriage guidance, attracting national and international readership.
Media Presence & Public Speaking
An in-demand motivational speaker, Kingsley addresses audiences both locally and globally. He broadcasts weekly LDM sessions on TV and social media, with hundreds of millions of views online.
He also produced cameo roles in short films like Twelve Seasons and Twelve Forty Five, aimed at educating newlyweds.
Philanthropy & Social Impact
Rooted in community service, Pastor K contributes significantly to:
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Scholarships for education
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Widow support and skills-acquisition programs
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Infidelity and domestic abuse recovery initiatives, reflecting a deep commitment to healing and empowerment.
Awards & Recognition
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YouTube Silver Play Button (2021)
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Nation Builder’s Leadership Award (4th Edition, 2021)
These honors amplify his credibility as a faith and relationship leader.
Net Worth & Economic Profile
While exact figures remain unclear, various platforms estimate his worth at around $2 million, attributed to his thriving ministry, bestselling books, speaking engagements, and entrepreneurial ventures.
Legacy & Future Outlook
Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo’s vivid legacy includes:
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Establishing DCC as a ministry committed to “100% victory”
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Transforming relationship education through LDM—bridging faith and modern dating/marriage
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Leading in relationship counseling, infidelity repair, and faithful living
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Building an enduring platform enriched by books, seminars, media, and pastoral care.
His life embodies a shift from a past marked by personal struggles to a future characterized by faith-driven transformation - a testament to redemption and purpose.
Anchoring faith in the heart of contemporary relationships and transformative leadership, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo remains a pillar of Christian marriage counseling, relationship leadership, and authentic pastoral care—a voice millions trust on the journey from dating to lasting unions and victorious living.
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