Bible Verses for Dating Decisions

Here’s a list of Bible verses that offer clarity, wisdom, and spiritual guidance for dating decision-making—whether you’re praying about someone, seeking direction, or trying to honor God in a relationship.

Bible Verses for Dating Decisions

1. Proverbs 3:5–6

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
 Application: Before you follow your feelings, follow God's direction. Pray before saying yes.

2. 2 Corinthians 6:14

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness?”
Application: If you’re a believer, date someone who shares your faith and values. Compatibility in Christ is foundational.

3. James 1:5

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.”
Application: When confused about someone’s character or future potential, ask God for clarity—He will show you.

4. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7

“Love is patient, love is kind… it is not self-seeking... it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
Application: Is what you’re feeling really love? Measure your relationship by this standard, not just emotions.

5. Proverbs 4:23

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
Application: Don’t rush into deep emotional investment. Protect your heart until you’re sure God is leading you both.

6. Philippians 4:6–7

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition… present your requests to God.”
Application: Struggling with doubts or anxiety about dating? Surrender the relationship in prayer.

7. Amos 3:3

“Can two walk together unless they are agreed?”
Application: Agreement in life direction, values, and vision is key. If your callings are opposed, reconsider.

8. 1 Thessalonians 4:3–5

“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality…”
Application: Purity matters. Honor God in how you handle boundaries.

9. Romans 12:2

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”
Application: Let God shape your views on love—not Hollywood or peer pressure.

10. Colossians 3:12–14

“Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience… And over all these virtues put on love…”
Application: Does the person you’re dating display these qualities? So should you.

How do I know if God wants me to date someone?

Look for alignment with God’s Word, peace in prayer, godly counsel, and fruit in the person’s life.

Is it biblical to date casually?

The Bible doesn’t use modern dating terms, but it calls for intentional, God-honoring relationships—not emotional trial-and-error.

What if I’m already dating someone and not sure?

Ask God for clarity. Examine the relationship with Scripture. It’s okay to pause or end things if it doesn’t align with your faith walk.

Key Takeaway

Dating isn’t just about emotions—it’s a spiritual journey. The Bible doesn’t give dating “rules,” but it offers timeless wisdom to guide your heart and protect your future.

“Seek first the kingdom of God…” —Matthew 6:33

Let that be your dating compass.